On the holy and auspicious day of Yom Kippur, as we gather in prayer and reflection, you may notice that many among us have the tradition of dressing and even behaving like angels. On this day of atonement, we abstain from eating or drinking, donning white clothing to appear angelic, and some even strive to stand during the service as much as possible, for angels are often referred to as “omdim,” meaning “standing.” But why do we go to such lengths to mimic the behaviors of these celestial beings? What is it about angelic behavior and their way of life that we seek to adopt?
In our quest for spiritual growth, Yom Kippur offers valuable insights into the angelic realm. Here are a few angelic behaviors and characteristics from which we, as human beings, can draw inspiration:
**1. Mission-Focused Existence:** Angels are known for their unwavering focus on their divine missions or roles. Their tasks remain at the forefront of their minds at all times. As we emulate this aspect of angels, we are reminded to remain committed to our own life’s mission and purpose. In our daily lives, it’s easy to get distracted by the myriad of stimuli around us, but staying focused can be immensely powerful.
2. Embracing Diversity and Harmony: Angels encompass a diverse range of roles and perspectives, and in our understanding of them, we discover that these celestial beings, despite their differing positions and views, not only tolerate one another but actively promote peace among themselves. As the famous verse states, “Oseh shalom bimromav Hu ya’aseh shalom aleinu V’al kol Yisrael,” May the one who creates peace on high (amongst the angels) bring peace to us and to all Israel. symbolizing our aspiration for unity and peace among diverse individuals. In our lives, we can strive to rise above differences in politics, beliefs, and views, fostering genuine connections with those who may seem different from us.
3. Eternal Spiritual Presence: Angels exist on a spiritual plane and do not undergo personal growth and evolution as we do. Instead, they embody their spiritual essence perpetually. This attribute teaches us to appreciate the value of remaining rooted in our own spiritual principles and not losing sight of our core values and beliefs.
In my work with C Care, I often reflect on the many Torah lessons that advocate for guidance and values in the community nourishment space. As we approach Yom Kippur, let us consider some practical takeaways from angelic behaviours that we can carry with us throughout the year:
1. Remain Focused on Your Mission: Just as angels never lose sight of their missions, we too should strive to stay focused on our goals and tasks especially when it comes to helping others. It’s easy to be distracted by the chaos of daily life, but the power of unwavering focus cannot be underestimated.
2. Embrace Diversity and Forge Connections: Differences in opinions, beliefs, and backgrounds can sometimes create divisions. However, like the angels who coexist harmoniously despite their diversity, let us rise above these differences and genuinely connect with one another. It is in these connections that we find true unity.
3. Sacrifice for Others: Occasionally, helping someone may come at a personal cost. Just as angels are static in nature and can be seen as “stuck” or not moving and evolving, we too can find it in our hearts to help others, even if it momentarily holds us back from our own aspirations. This act of selflessness can be a source of profound fulfillment.
As we prepare for Yom Kippur, I wish you all a “Gmar Chatima Tova” and a year ahead filled with angelic virtues—mission-focused dedication, unity amidst diversity, and unwavering commitment to our spiritual essence. May we all draw strength from these lessons as we strive for personal growth and a deeper connection with our faith.
Shlomo Nathanson Bio:
Shlomo Nathanson was born and raised in the US. He married his wife Rivki in 2008 and moved to Australia. From a very young age Shlomo has been passionate about making a difference in the Jewish community, and was actively involved in various outreach activities.
In 2010 Shlomo and Rivki opened the Chabad Jewish Community Centre in Port Melbourne, an area that until then had no Jewish infrastructure. This community centre continues to thrive and provides a strong sense of community to its members.
Upon encountering many local Jews experiencing social isolation and poverty, Shlomo was driven to find a solution and address this need. In 2012 Shlomo & Rivki started C Care. C Care began as a small grassroots organisation, distributing food once a month to 100 local Jews. It has since grown into a leading community organisation addressing social isolation and food insecurity. C Care now services over 2000 individuals each week, and has a strong, vibrant community of dedicated volunteers.
In 2015 Shlomo joined the Melbourne Hebrew Congregation as assistant Rabbi, and in 2020 became Senior Rabbi. In his role at MHC Shlomo is dedicated to connecting with members and providing a space for people to come and connect with their Judaism in a way that feels meaningful to them.
Underlying all Shlomo’s work in his various roles of Rabbi at MHC, CJCC and CEO of C Care – is a deep care for each individual that he encounters, and a passion and commitment to Jewish community.
Watch Rabbi Nathanson & his wife Rivki’s interview: https://thesocialblueprint.org.au/rivki-shlomo/